How to behave with a difficult child?

Certain children are born with a difficult character (coleric, provocative,…). The parents who discover that their child has such a behavior often have a difficulty which they did not expect. However, that does not want to say that the situation cannot be improved. On the contrary, there are some “tricks” to make and not to make so that the family life is not transformed into a permanent battle field.
The first thing is that you must include/understand what disturbs your child. Take time to observe it and analyze what pushes it with becoming coleric or violent. Its violent reactions are for him means of defense. Contrary to a sensitive child who suffers in the event of very strong emotions caused by his environment, the difficult child will react while trying to dominate the situation by aggressive means.
You must help it to learn and manage the perturbing situations for him. Explain him before to what it will have to expect. Remain close to him, reassure it until it is able to face there. The situations must become as foreseeable as possible; your child must feel protected.
You should never irritate you and show him that you are with end of idea. Try to nicely remain calm while asking him to make the things while avoiding criticisms. Also take time to explain the things in the same way to him as if it were a large person.
Generally, a refractory child uses of violence to feel safe and to protect themselves. You should not sink in despair. On the contrary, you must express much affection with your child even if it reacts to it violently. The objective is to create an atmosphere of confidence. A coleric and refractory child is quite simply a child who lack of confidence in him.
Lastly, if you find your child very difficult, it would be good that you obtained from the assistance. It is indeed preferable to deal with the problems of the interactions between parents and child as soon as possible. Do not hesitate to consult the site dedicated to the difficult children more